WHY PEOPLE ARE MESSY?

© 04.20.2026 by Cupideros

It should come as no surprise that people are “messy.” But what does “messy” mean?

YOU KNOW WHAT IT MEANS—PEOPLE ARE LIKE CHILDREN, AND CHILDREN ARE MESSY.

When people don’t get the pattern right, IT‘S MESSY! They are messy not because they choose to be but because the “growing up” pattern-recognition process involves making decisions and taking active choices that reflect the person’s level of development. This process is explained in the Child-Learning Phase videos on Abyssarianism.com. They are part of the “Learning to Grow Up” videos of Abyssarianism.

Regardless of how you feel about religion, the child-learning phase is something we all go through, and your children, or other people’s children, will continue to navigate it in future years from now no matter their religious affiliation.

YET, THIS CHILD-LEARNING PHASE OR “HAMMER ON VIOLIN STRING PHASE,” IS FUNNY AT TIMES.

So, funny, we all laugh at those going through them with a knowing that their journey is just a “phase of learning.”

PROOF 1: The young baby starts to stand up and walk, feeling a lack of prestige from crawling on all fours that previously supported his or her ego.

The child looks around and says, “Hey! That more practical, faster, and pragmatic. I want to walk around on two feet, too!”

Here comes the messiness! He or she decides to break the recognized pattern of walking on all fours, hands and knees. The baby leaps off all fours, quickly falling back down. The child gives it another go. Experiences another failure. Finally, he gets up on his two feet and is so close—so close to being like all the adults in the room—the real humans!

But he or she falls down again. They start crying. It’s frustrating. It’s humiliating. It must be possible to accomplish it, the child thinks. His or her knees hurt. The embarrassment!

In this scenario, the loving parents laugh and say, “Ahhh. You can do it.” “Try again.” The parent or parents, usually the mom, hold out her loving arms in a future-welcoming embrace. “Come on, Johnny, Julie. You can do it! Come to Mommy.”

NOW THE CHILD IS NO DUMMY. HE OR SHE IS STARTING TO RECOGNIZE PATTERNS.

The pattern of adults walking. The pattern of meal time. Especially the pattern of when mommy changes his or her stinky diaper. Like many adults, the child doesn’t want to think too deeply on some things, especially like why his or her diaper gets messy! He or she may even laugh or giggle at himself or herself when Mommy is changing his or her diaper. “Hey, I didn’t do it on purpose. I don’t know why this happens. It’s all a toy rattler mystery!”

The child wants to walk now—that’s what’s important.

He or she tries to stand up again. He or she fails. Mommy laughs with him or her!

WTF—this is some hard task. Don’t laugh at me; I am trying to get the pattern down, the baby thinks to themselves.

Nevertheless, he or she gives it another go. The pattern was completed by all the people he or she sees walking about while he or she sits in the stroller. Yes, it can be done! It is possible.

NOW HERE COMES THE IMPORTANT PART OF ALL THIS MESS.

The parents are laughing because they know they went through the same ritual. Each parent knows they stuff these “trying to walk events” deep in their archive memories. The parents know Johnny or Julie will get it together and walk. They are laughing at the process of being human, and growing up is a messy thing for humans. Messiness can be perceived as fun—when we know we can do better. We can be better, and will accomplish the tasks someday.

The baby tries again.

“Keep trying Johnny or Julie. You’ll eventually grow up and walk on your own two feet!”

We keep this same hope in the forefront of our minds about older humans, tweens, teens, and even adults. We laugh when they experience a breakup. They shouldn’t have been trying to have a wife or husband at age ten anyway. Or when grown heterosexual adults try to find love on those gay-created dating apps!

We extend this hope to our neighbors, co-workers, politicians, college and university professors, blue-collar workers, sports figures, generals, doctors, body-wash stealers, organizational leaders, lawyers, rich, middle-class or poor. Messiness is part of being human. The humor continues as well.

PROOF #2: WHAT’S WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE?

This is one of the reasons why the majority of people are fat in this society today. Moms stepped out of the homes, stopped cooking healthy meals for their families. The result–people turned to McDonald, Uber Eats, frozen fast food dinners and peanut better and jelly sandwiches for breakfast, lunch and dinner!

But try to tell the FEMINIST MATRIARCHY this fact. They refuse to accept their fault in breaking the natural pattern of family behavior. The outer shell of life is there home, family dinner table, family portraits on the walls, but no substantive action of the 4th Government exist in reality. That makes this picture: “FAMILY MATRIARCHY DINNER DRAMA” funny. We all know this is not the pattern that’s supposed to be operating; the pattern were supposed to be obeying.

PROOF 3: Is there anything more messy than The Gay-Lesbian movie, television, magazine gaze being force fed to 99% of the majority who are heterosexual!

The majority of the world’s population is heterosexual and not interested in seeing, watching, or strategizing how to become gay or lesbian. This is why all these movies are failing; this is why men look like girlized boys, and girls are looking masculine. The biological pattern remains however: Men have more strength and logic than any masculinized woman or fake 120 lb woman flipping a 400 lb man over her back in a fight!

THESE MOVIES, TELEVISION AND MAGAZINE CHARACTERS ARE COMICAL!

THESE MOVIE, TELEVISION AND MAGAZINE CHARACTERS PATTERNS ARE MESSY!

PROOF #4: When things get so off-kilter, off-key when end up having to laugh at the messiness of more mundane things in life like this picture below:

Of course, this goes back to the home, moms, motherhood, and 4th Government. This kind of life style would never happen—and the cat has to be the adult in the room!

MESSY, MESSY, MESSY!

Some things, situations are organically messy. We can’t help those things: a baby learning to walk, learning language, navigating new technology like ChatGPT, or understanding politics and how politicians routinely lie.

But other things and situations are messes we adults in the room have created: FEMINISM, BOLSHEVISM, COMMUNISM, TRANSGENDERISM, WARS FOR PROFITS, CONSTANTLY LYING AIPAC NOSE RING WEARING POLITICIANS, ICE ILLEGAL FORCED SNATCHING HISPANICS OFF THE STREETS AND PUTTING THEM INTO CONCENTRATION GULAGS, MEGA CULTS, SUPER-RICH PASSING BIG BEAUTIFUL BULLY BILLS ROBBING THE UPPER CLASS, MIDDLE CLASS, AND POOR CLASS, BODY-WASH STEALERS TAKING ALL YOUR SPOONS WHEN THEY KNOW YOU HAVE NOTHING BUT SOUP TO EAT ON A SUNDAY NIGHT; SO YOU ARE FORCED TO EAT SOUP WITH A FORK; RELIGIOUS CULTS, RELIGIOUS DESTRUCTION OF CRITICAL THINKING SKILLS, CENSORSHIP OF SPEECH AS A LANGUAGE LEARNING TOOL FOR THE OPPRESSED, AND, JEWISH FASCISM, THE EPSTEIN CLASS NORMALIZING SEX-TRAFFICKING, SLAVERY AND LITERAL EATING OF DEAD GIRLS, ALL–ALL OF THESE MAKING PATTERNS THAT POINT DOWN INSTEAD OF PATTERNS OF REALITY THAT SHOULD POINT UP!

These artificial disruptive patterns are messy indeed!

So yes, people are messy and now you know for sure why that is the reality—THE TRUTH THAT DEPENDS ON THE TRUTH!

AS WE SAY IN ABYSSARIANISM: THINK-IT-THROUGH, THINK-IT-THROUGH!

04.20.2026

ETERNAL I (HE), ETERNAL I (SHE) OR BEST GIRL, AND CUPIDEROS